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Shattering the ‘Good Person’ Mask: From Approval-Seeking to Boundaries and Authentic Seva

Many spiritual practitioners unintentionally tie self-worth to a “good person” identity measured by constant seva, positivity, and visible devotion. This narrative shows how approval-seeking and people-pleasing create guilt, resentment, and fragile boundaries. By asking honest questions and releasing the internal scoreboard, service shifts from pressure to presence. The result is authentic compassion, healthier boundaries, and…
